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A BOO-tiful Day For Halloween!

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Tonight, we are amongst the many neighborhoods in the country that are stocking up on goodies and debuting their costumes. We aim to provide a home away from home which includes providing a sense of normalcy in our family’s lives – and since today is Halloween, we are hoping to provide a memorable holiday! 

The office was decorated and had signs welcoming families so they knew to trick-or-treat through the offices in the House. Each person got a bag for treats and the celebration started at 9 am and people could trick-or-treat until midnight.

Trick-or-treat welcome

Even our Heart Warmers were dressed up for the occasion as they passed out some goodies. Kids faces lit up as they received different goodies from each office! Some received play-doh, crafts, or slime. 

  

Our staff as the true princesses they are: Ashley as Cinderella, Erica as Ariel, Jill as Snow White, Alex as Merida, Lane as Belle 

 

Party City generously donated costumes for kids staying in the house and NICU held a costume decorating class for parents. It was so fun to have Luigi stop in, doesn’t his mustache look great?  

 

With donated pumpkins, families were able to help us decorate for the weeks approaching Halloween. It was so fun to see the painted pumpkins – We always have some artists under the roof.

 

September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month

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Have you ever wondered why the Childhood Cancer Awareness ribbon is gold? In 1997, a group of parents picked gold as the official color because it symbolizes how precious and resilient children are.   

As we move into September, we prepare for change: changing from tank tops to sweaters, changing grades in school, and the upcoming change of seasons. For some parents, their life changes with the words, “Your child has cancer.”   

Unfortunately, childhood cancer is the leading cause of death by disease in children in the US. In our own House, 14% of the families we serve are here based on a cancer diagnosis. To come together and acknowledge the thousands of families affected by a cancer diagnosis, September is designated as National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month.   

If the emotional toll and heartache on a parent aren’t enough during this time, the financial burden may come in second. At the Ronald McDonald House of the Red River Valley, we are focused on the simple idea that nothing else should matter while a family is healing their child. These parents are changing and evolving their new “normal” and we are here to provide unwavering support.  

With the help of our donors, we were able to provide the Stehley family a “home away from home. They stayed with us for 38 nights while their young son Mason received cancer treatments. The House was a much-needed getaway from the hospital, nurses, and machines. “It’s just nice that you can come here and not think about hospital and nurses and machines and you come here and they’re always positive. You go in and they’re always happy and talking to you. “  

Childhood cancers often have treatment protocols that can take up to two years while they work towards remission. During this time, parents may have to be absent from work and travel long distances for health care. We hope they can find a new normal during these changing times.  

If you are looking for a way to help change a family’s life, you are in luck. We have some great suggestions:   

  • Monetary donation – We ask that families pay $20 per night for their room, but no one is turned away for their inability to pay.   
  • Time donation – We have so many volunteer opportunities for everyone from baking to cleaning  
  • Pop tab donation – These small items make a huge impact when they are recycled   
  • Item donation – Our House is home to roughly 400 families a year which means we go through quite a bit of stuff. Items like laundry detergent, coffee, and toilet paper. We also have an arts & craft room as well as a playroom for families.   
  • Talk about childhood cancer  – Advocate for those affected by cancer. Sometimes bringing light to a topic is the best way to help.

If you’re interested more in the Stehley family, click here

Say “Hi” to Sharon Miller

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We are thankful for our Board Members who help guide us through this wild mission of keeping families close. They are who we turn to when we need advice on finances, marketing, or hospital dynamics. On our board, we have Sharon Miller. She recently retired from her career in Human Resources in the Information and

Technology industry. After spending 20 years in Fargo, she has made great relationships and cares deeply for her community. We sat down with her to ask her why she does what she does.

What drew you to volunteer on the Board with RMHC? 

I have been on the Sweetheart Ball Committee for over 10 years and I always hoped to serve on the Board when I had more time and/or retired.  With my recent retirement in 2018, it was a great time to serve yet keep my seat on the Sweetheart Ball Committee as well.  The organization has always been dear to my heart and helping families in need is a privilege.

What do you wish more people knew about RMHC? 

I am always talking about RMHC and the mission.  The key message is an affordable “home away from home” for families focused on healthcare for their children.  The personal approach by the staff and volunteers create a warm and welcoming place to recharge and relax. 

What are 3 words you would use to describe RMHC? 

Caring. Committed. Compassionate.

What has been the most rewarding aspect of being a part of RMHC? 

The opportunity to “give back” when I have had a life of many blessings.  I have 3 healthy children and 3 healthy grandchildren.  I can’t imagine the pain and heartache for parents faced with healthcare challenges with their lovely children.  I am in awe of their strength and unconditional love. 

What do you do when you aren’t volunteering with RMHC? 

I recently retired and will continue to do consulting gigs at times, especially in HR Training.  I also serve on the Hope Blooms Board.  Volunteering is a passion for me.  Of course, spending time with my grandchildren in the Minneapolis area is a big part of my life.  My last child is going to college in the fall so an empty nest is in my future!

What’s your favorite thing about being a part of the Fargo community? 

I have had an amazing career in the F-M area which has lead to strong personal and professional relationships.  I live on a farm by Mapleton, ND where my husband is a 4th generation farmer.  I have been able to work, volunteer and live with great opportunities.  The F-M area is committed to non-profits, and I have seen it first-hand from my 6 years with CCRI, 17 years as a scorekeeper with the Roger Maris Golf Tournament, 10 years + with RMHC and now as a newly appointed Hope Blooms board member.  

What is your favorite season and why? 

My favorite season of the year is SUMMER.  I love flip flops and summer dresses!  The farm is always beautiful with the crops growing around the farmstead.  I am all about sunshine and warm weather.  In the winter, I can’t wait for the annual March trips to beachy locations– aww! 

If you could do one thing on your bucket list this year, what would it be? 

To take a long weekend with my husband to Las Vegas and see a show! 

Is there anything else you would like to share? 

I am grateful for the opportunity to help RMHC move their mission forward.

 

What’s cookin’?

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Happy July – or should I say end of July. My, how time flies when you’re having fun!

This month was our 20th annual golf tournament for Ronald McDonald House of the Red River Valley. With the help of over 100 golfers on 34 teams, we were able to reach $37,000 dollars! That is amazing. THANK YOU to everyone who donated their time, resources, or money. We cannot do this without you – don’t forget that. Along with the golf tournament, we hired a new Development Coordinator, went to a few conferences, and continued to improve our new House. It’s crazy how fast the summer goes, but we are thankful for the warmth… both in the people AND the weather.

I don’t think we can tell people enough about the amazing volunteers we have come through our doors each day. Today, I thought we could focus on our cooking and baking chefs/volunteers because the kitchen is truely the heart of any home. We’ve compiled recipes used in our kitchen from the past year to share with you. Help me introduce our first ever Cookbook: 2019 Edition.

 

 

These recipes are tried and true and ready for you to attempt. When volunteers come, we tell them they should anticipate feeding twelve hungry adults. If you and your friends would like to take over our kitchen for the night, please visit our website under “volunteers” or email Ashley at ashley@rmhcfargo.org

several small bags of popcorn

We’re back!

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Hey folks!

Long time, no see. Like, a really long time. We’re sorry. You helped us build our beautiful new house and we got so caught up in how great it is to offer to our families that we didn’t carve out enough time for this blog throughout the process.  Continue reading

National Nonprofit Day

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Happy National Nonprofit Day! Here at the Ronald McDonald House, we are happy to do our work in a community so vibrant with nonprofits and helpers. We are convinced that good work is happening every day in the Fargo-Moorhead area and are so grateful to be part of this nonprofit landscape.  Continue reading

The Beginnings of RMHC of the Red River Valley

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“We have been at the hospital for almost 12 hours and it seems like a lifetime. I just looked in on Sara and she looks so beautiful and peaceful laying in her crib. She has been so brave and good considering all of the poking, prodding and sticking with needles they have done to her. I almost feel guilty because she is braver than I am. Sometimes she just lays in her crib, eyes wide open, laying so still. What could she be thinking about? Is there a remote chance she knows what is ahead and isn’t afraid? How come I am more afraid than I have ever been in my whole life?” -Bev McAllister, December 1978 journal excerpt  Continue reading

An interview with our builder: Nor-Son, Inc.

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Ron, inside the house, giving a tour of the office area

Ron Myrvold, Vice President of Construction – Fargo Operations, giving a tour of the new house.

Nor-Son, Inc. was the construction manager for our new Ronald McDonald House. The new house is located at 4757 Agassiz Crossing Dr. S. in Fargo, ND. The team we worked with at Nor-Son has been incredibly helpful, going above and beyond to ensure a successful and beautiful space for families to find comfort after a long day. Nor-Son has worked diligently so that the Ronald McDonald House in Fargo can continue helping families stay together.  It has been a delight working with the team at Nor-Son throughout the entire building process.

We interviewed Mark Korte of Nor-Son, Inc. so you can get to know the team too!  

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